If the mother can't break the attachment, they say that the baby can't leave this world. For him to be happy in a good place you must send the child that you must send. . . and you must live.
Pause and remember - You alone are responsible for taking an interest in your own growth. Understanding your deepest fears and pain is what will move you forward. If you can do this, you will be rewarded with not only a deeper connection with yourself, but also with others.