All that is impossible remains to be accomplished.
The freedom the bars give women is not the same freedom a woman on the street or in a brothel has. That's more like imprisonment.
To be in the dance bar you have to be young, good looking, able to dance, and comfortable talking to people.
Dance bars are seen as the place where gangsters go to relax and spend money.
Since the gangsters are glamorized, by extension the women they sleep with are also necessarily glamorous.
Why does a dad matter so much to a daughter, in particular? A dad is the one who teaches a daughter what a male is all about. It's the first man in her life--the first man she loves, the first male she tries to please, the first man who says no to her, the first man to discipline her. In effect, he sets her up for success or failure with the opposite sex. Not only that, but she takes cues from how Dad treats Mom as she grows up about what to expect as a woman who is in a relationship with a man. So Dad sets up his daughter's marriage relationship too.
My mother was a very beautiful lady, I thought. She was very good to me. I guess - she died when I was nine and a half, but if she had lived I probably wouldn't be trying to play guitar. She wanted me to be known, but as something else. Not a guitar player.
I lived in Indonesia for four years and I understand trance and magic and where it comes from.
Part of the public horror of sexual irregularity so-called is due to the fact that everyone knows himself essentially guilty.