I LOVE my friends neither with my heart nor with my mind. Just in case. . . HEART might stop. MIND can forget. I Love them with my Soul. SOUL never stops or forgets.
White people don't have that problem, they get to go through life never having to fit into a box, and it's really more so true for white men because even just being a woman, you sort of have to walk around other people's assumptions of you and it's so exhausting and there's a sense, especially among young people of wanting to just live your life, not having to wear the weight of that pressure - pressure that people of color feel, that gay people of color feel, that women of color feel.