I am going to tell you what nature behaves like. If you will simply admit that maybe she does behave like this, you will find her a delightful, entrancing thing. Do not keep saying to yourself, if you can possibly avoid it, 'But how can it be like that?'. . . Nobody knows how it can be like that.
When you have loved deeply, that love can grow even stronger after the death of the person you love. That is the core message of Jesus.