Women tend to be more interested in reconciliation. A Kenyan woman leader said to me, "You know, in a war, men and women want different things. The men care a lot about territory. And they care where the borders are. And they want this whole state. The women," she said, "they want a safe place. " And she put her fingers like this, "They want a safe place for their children to go to school without being shot, for their daughters to not be raped. "
Anyone singing about trucks, in any form, in any song, anywhere, literally just stop - nobody cares!