A wise person does not fear the edges and fringes, but studies them. Indeed, he or she is often in them, working to make change happen.
I'm still not sure I made the right choice when I told my wife about the bakery attack. But then,it might not have been a question of right or wrong. Which is to say that wrong choices can produce right results, and vice versa. I myself have adopted the position that,in fact, we never choose anything at all. Things happen. Or not.