Stop it," he hissed in her ear. "You'll just make it worse for yourself. It's better if you don't look. " "Like you do?" she hissed back. "Shutting your eyes and pretending something's not happening doesn't make it not true, Jace. You ought to know better-
Let the kite perch and let the eagle perch too – If one says no to the other, let his wing break.