Back 20 years ago, I was recording with Bruce Springsteen, and his producer called me and said I had to be in the studio the next day to finish the sessions, and I couldn't. I had to be in court, in California. All this took like 10 years out of my life.
You aim for what you want and if you don't get it, you don't get it, but if you don't aim, you don't get anything.