My whole life had been an uninterrupted act of loving him.
A personal essay often includes some or a lot of personal confession. That makes the reader feel less lonely in their confusion and darkness.
The prospect of a long day at the beach makes me panic. There is no harder work I can think of than taking myself off to somewhere pleasant, where I am forced to stay for hours and 'have fun'.
Most good essays are conversations with yourself - not just your decided thoughts but your dilemmas.
Doubt is my boon companion, the faithful St. Bernard ever at my side. Whether writing essays or just going about daily life, I am constantly second-guessing myself. My mind is filled with 'yes, buts,' 'so whats?' and other skeptical rejoinders. I am forever monitoring myself for traces of folly, insensitivity, arrogance, false humility, cruelty, stupidity, immaturity and, guess what, I keep finding examples. Age has not made me wiser, except maybe in retrospect.
The essay must be artistically rendered: You must keep the reader engaged, whether with wit, conflict, mischief, andor yes, with honesty.
In new work, we need to see the shadow, however faint, of previous literary effort.
Don't the wounded bird still sing?
Oh, yeah, I do movies; I forgot. They see them on TV. I forget that anybody knows me
Click bang, what a hang, your daddy just shot poor me.
Ancient Rule of Twenty-one: if you do anything for twenty-one days in a row, it will be installed as a habit.