I believe that you cannot go any further than you can think. I certainly believe if you don't desire a thing, you will never get it.
I love saying 'yes' and I love saying 'please. ' Saying 'yes' doesn't mean I don't know how to say no, and saying 'please' doesn't mean I am waiting for permission. 'Yes please' sounds powerful and concise. It's a response and a request. It is not about being a good girl; it is about being a real woman.