Sitting around on your big fat gluteus maximus talking about the good old days. The good old days are right this second. You've got to exercise VIG-OR-OUSLY! Life is tough. Life is a challenge. Life is a battlefield. . . . Life is an athletic event, and you must train for it.
A grieving person's like a person treading in deep water--if they've nothing to hold on to, they lose hope. They slide right under.