My tact is that you don't change the definition of marriage for one group, homosexuals, because you have to change it for all the groups. So you don't do it, particularly if people in California vote on it, don't want it, they think that the heterosexuality is a societal stabilizer.
I have a trainer who comes three times a week and just listens to me moan. . . and I keep fit and keep moving. . . and I do watch what I eat. I am a vegetarian. . . I can't eat crazy food. I'm highly allergic to onions and garlic and spices. . . I've never had a pizza, never had a curry.