Winter is the reason for the spring; he who loves the spring must also love its reason!
A successful relationship is not about two people staring into each other's eyes, it's about two people looking ahead together. I think in order to construct, it's not just, "you do this, then I'll do this. " It's more like, "let's work on these ideas together, and just move together, with these ideas. " It does create a balance.