We would like you to reach the place where you're not willing to listen to people criticize one another. . . where you take no satisfaction from somebody being wrong. . . where it matters to you so much that you feel good, that you are only willing to think positive things about people. . . you are only willing to look for positive aspects; you are only willing to look for solutions, and you are not willing to beat the drum of all of the problems of the world.
How can a question be answered that asks a lifetime of questions.