When you've said all of the bad things and all of the good things you haven't been saying, you will find that what you've really been withholding is, "I love you. " You don't have to go looking for love when it is where you come from.
Whether we are poets or parents or teachers or artists or gardeners, we must start where we are and use what we have. In the process of creation and relationship, what seems mundane and trivial may show itself to be a holy, precious part of a pattern.