You don't go around grieving all the time, but the grief is still there and always will be.
There are two merits that glorify a person: being courageous for a man and being virtuous for a woman. Besides these two, there is another merit that glorifies both man and woman: so much loving the homeland to an extent with being ready to sacrifice his
her life, if needed. Turks are such courageous and virtuous people. That is why you can kill a Turk but you can never defeat them.