We need to raise our voices a little more, even as they say to us, 'This is so uncharacteristic of you. ' Invisibility is not a natural state for anyone.
I love to cook and really enjoy cleaning my house. People always tease me about getting a maid. My girlfriend tells me that they are only $40 and will do everything. But that is my time to unwind, put my hair in a ponytail, throw on sweats, and be myself.