If the unconscious must express itself it will do so through the work that you do consciously or subconsciously, with words, with what you have to say.
You know," she said, stirring her tea, "the fastest way to get him off your back is to sleep with him. And tell him you love him. Preferably while in bed. " I smirked and the tea almost came out of my nose. "He'd run like he was on fire.