This Christianity is not a cultural thing. It is not something that should be just a small part of your life; it is not something that you do on Sunday. . . Christianity is not about you being just like the world all the time and then coming to church on Sunday. If that is your Christianity. . . you are not Christian.
I wasn't ecstatic about being pregnant - I wasn't somebody who actively wanted kids. Certainly there were no fantasies about nappy-changing.