If you go out with someone and decide you don't want to see them again, do them the … - Mallory Ortberg

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No one has ever said to me 'go home and make a baby. ' I have been told several times to go to Planned Parenthood and make the baby go away. Happy Hannukah.

Mallory Ortberg

If you go out with someone and decide you don't want to see them again, do them the courtesy of saying, "Hey, I had a nice time, but I don't think things are going to work out between us. " Only you can help fight ghosting.

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