Violence in any form is a tragic expression of our unmet needs.
Getting in touch with unmet needs is important to the healing process.
So the Dark did a simple thing. They showed the maker of the sword his own uncertainty and fear. Fear of having done the wrong thing--fear that having done this one great thing, he would never again be able to accomplish anything of great worth--fear of age, of insufficiency, of unmet promise. All such great fears, that are the doom of people given the gift of making, and lie always somewhere in their minds.
Sin is the result of deep and unmet needs.
We're only as needy as our unmet needs.
At the root of every tantrum and power struggle are unmet needs.
They have most likely said it because they have an unmet need.
Use anger as a wake-up call to unmet needs.
All moralistic judgments, whether positive or negative, are tragic expressions of unmet needs.
When I look at 225 million women who want contraceptives, and then I look at the 52 million unintended pregnancies that could be avoided by addressing this unmet need, where can we have the biggest impact with our voice, our dollars, our partners? It's on contraceptives. I would rather address the problem upstream.
When I am angry I have a judgment and an unmet need.
If war stems from unmet needs related to male adolescent ritual, that's something that we need to examine. I'm interested in the possibility of simply getting rid of war. I'd be no more willing to let go of that than to let go of the possibility of eradicating cancer. That's not to say I'm certain we can, but I am willing to use any energy at all in the quest.
I think it's possible to have experiences of love without attachment, but I think part of our conditioning is to grasp at times, especially when there are unmet needs. It's part of our nervous system to hold on to where we think those needs will be met.
Criticism, analysis, and insults are tragic expressions of unmet needs.
Bitterness is a nonproductive, toxic emotion, usually resulting from resentment over unmet needs.
Focusing on the unmet need (not the judgment) is more likely to get the need met.
If you invest the time to understand the customer better than they know themselves, if you know the things they want or need even if they can't articulate it, you can begin to develop a good sense as to where there really are unmet needs in the market.
Unmet expectations are tough when it's your wife or your husband, but it's really tough when it's God. And yet, it can be a time of growth and a time of faith, a time of understanding who God is.
But there are so many ways to be needy. There are many who mourn and find no comfort. Many are lonely and find no love. Some feel unneeded and find no opportunities to share with others. Anyone who has an unmet need is needy. We are all needy! And those who have something they can share are rich. We are all rich! All of us can share something that may lift a burden or help in some silent struggle.
Get your personal needs met, once and for all; if you have unmet needs, you'll attract others in the same position.
