Winter Wonderland is on my hand, it's kinda rocky
There's real evidence that getting involved in charitable activity (and it's probably better to give your time and effort, rather than money) makes people happier.
I think, in all honesty, the first place that someone in emotional distress should turn is their loved ones, and then to use professionals.
When you notice an unhelpful emotion or a shift in mood, or when you notice that you're doing something you know can cause problems (being snappy, for example, or drinking too much), that could act as a cue to examine your own thoughts - "what am I thinking?".
Rumination tends to be eased if we learn to be mindful; if we are able to be aware of, and understand how our own thoughts work.
Keep your brain active. Engage your brain. Your brain is the most fantastic machine ever created, and it needs to be exercised.
Maintain your relationships - for all kinds of reasons, friends are vital. Good friends, supportive friends, friends who won't judge you or try to take advantage of you.
Never lie under any circumstances.
Some times your best effort just isn't good enough.
What stands if freedom fall?
It is only when you're lying to yourself or hating some aspect of yourself that you'll get an emotional charge from someone else's behavior.