The world is made of stairs, and there are those who go up and those who go down.
My parents have worked their asses off their whole entire lives, they still do, and I never felt like anything would be handed to me. I never felt sorry for myself. I felt like, "Wow, this is incredible. I'm able to do this for myself. " I think once you have that sense of empowerment at a young age and you allow your children to have that empowerment, it will fuel them for a lifetime.