If you can be that link to other people that came before you and the ones that come after, then you have to honor that link. If you are doing what somebody else tells you to do and you have success, it's horrible. And if you are doing what other people tell you to do and you fail, it's equally horrible.
When you move to the city, you really notice how ugly people can be. And that's something you don't really have to deal with in the country. So I do miss that.