My family has reduced the effect of my career on my self-esteem. When I'm with them, they make me feel special regardless of how I play.
When I was growing up, I was as socially outcast as any nerd could possibly be. I was in the chess club, I brought D&D stuff to school, I had every game system you could imagine, I spent countless hours at arcades, computer camp, loud presence in the Latin Club. All that stuff.