Why do we focus so intensely on our problems? What draws us to them? Why are they so attractive? They have the magnet power of love: somehow we desire our problems; we are in love with them much as we want to get rid of them. . . Problems sustain us -- maybe that's why they don't go away. What would a life be without them? Completely tranquilized and loveless. . . There is a secret love hiding in each problem
As with many other things, there is a surprising amount of prejudice against quality control, but the proof of the pudding is still in the eating.