When you're a little kid, you want the ball. You don't want to play defense. When you get the ball, basically you can do whatever you want.
People looked to Kurt Cobain because his songs captured what they felt before they knew they felt it.
Interviewing is a lot like talking, but you have to guide the conversation. You have to know what you want and go about getting it.
It can be nerve wracking if you walk into the interview and you're not sure what to expect.
When I started teaching, I would get miffed if a student asked me to write him or her a recommendation for law school - I'd feel like that's not what we were doing in the course. But now I see that person as someone who might be gainfully employed. I bring in a lot of people to speak to my classes, and I've gotten to the point where I've expanded the type of guests I invite to include people both inside and outside of the traditional publishing world.
When I broke into music journalism it wasn't easy but there was more of an established path. I wanted and was able to have a grown-up person's job with a real salary writing for a fairly sizable audience about stuff I cared about. When you're starting out, you try to get as much experience as you can so people will see your work, and maybe start giving you the assignments you want, and paying you (hopefully both). And if you're lucky you land someplace where you can stay for a while. But today that's a trickier trajectory to envision.
In Othello, Othello kills Desdemona, but no one reads that play as a model for their own behavior. In Lou Reed's case, you're listening to a song, and in my case you're reading about a life. Like Lou, I trust my audience to make their own moral determinations.
You know a real friend? Someone you know will look after your cat after you are gone.
My notion's to think of the human beings first and let the abstract ideas take care of themselves.
O my son! The dunya (world) is a deep ocean in which many have drowned! Let your ship be taqwallah (fear of Allah), and load your ship with Iman-billah (believe in Allah), and let her sail be tawakkal (trust) on Allah! Insha'Allah you will survive then.
In school, writing was the only thing that really came naturally to me, but it wasn't until college that I realized that I could do it for more than just fun.