Spiritual guidance needs guidance. It's like comparing walking on the ground and mountain climbing. Once you learn how to walk, you can walk on the ground by yourself, but if you want to climb Mount Everest, you need a guide.
In the heart of the God of the universe, each child of his is as necessary to him as the fingers are to the hand. -In the marvelous design of the universe, not even a sparrow can fall to earth meaninglessly.