I know it's important to do more than just complain when there's something you don't like. You need to try to do something about it, or you're nothing but a whiner.
You can't be a winner if you're a whiner. . . wiener.
And you, whiner, who wastes your time Dawdling over the remorseless earth, What evil, what unspeakable crime Have you made your life worth?
The moment you tell someone else is the moment you become a whiner and the world’s smallest violin starts to play. The truth is, we all have problems; we all go through hardships and pain, and my pain is paradise compared to a lot of people’s and I really have no right to whine at all.
"My door is always open - bring me your problems. " This is guaranteed to turn on every whiner, lackey and neurotic on the property.
Have you noticed how difficult it is just to get along in the world? If you're no good at all in your job, people treat you badly and eventually you will be unemployed. And if you're a little better than competent, everyone expects miracles from you, every single time. Like most of life, it's a no-win situation. And if you dare to mention it, no matter how creatively you phrase your complaints, you are shunned as a whiner.
God wants you to be a winner, not a whiner.