The honeymoon is not actually over until we cease to stifle our sighs and begin to stifle our yawns.
The Waterfall Model is wrong and harmful; we must outgrow it.
You can learn more from failure than success. In failure you're forced to find out what part did not work. But in success you can believe everything you did was great, when in fact some parts may not have worked at all. Failure forces you to face reality.
The hardest single part of building a software system is deciding precisely what to build the most important function that software builders do for their clients is the iterative extraction and refinement of the product requirements. For the truth is, the clients do not know what they want. They usually do not know what questions must be answered, and they have almost never thought of the problem in the detail that must be specified.
Consensus processes starve innovative design by eating the resource.
Improving your process won't move you from good to great design. It'll move you from bad to average.
Present to inform, not to impress. If you inform, you will impress.
As a kid, when I got to the edge of a cliff I wanted to jump off. I didn't want to kill myself. I wanted to fly.
In the recovery movement, they call what I'm talking about letting go and letting God. If you're uncomfortable with the word God, just add an o and make it Good. The two words are interchangeable. It just means allowing this divine source of kindness, beauty and creativity to be the dominant force in your life - whatever you're doing. I truly believe that God writes all the books and builds all the bridges. Sure, I sit down for six or seven hours a day with my pen and pads - but the message moves though me and I just allow.
As African-Americans, we often spend our time and energy blaming other people for the problems we see around us.
A Christian should resemble a fruit tree with real fruit, not a Christmas tree with decorations tied on