You must know that baptism for someone who is dead is quite as essential as baptism for some one who is living.
I once heard that women dress for women -- not for men -- and I think that has some truth to it. Men, what do they know? They don't know if you gain or lose five pounds. They're oblivious to those kinds of things. A lot of men will say "I like you just as you are. " And you're like "But I'm bloated!" If they're attracted to you, they're attracted to you.