When you understand someone. . . truly understand someone. . . you can't help but love them. Therefore. . . anyone in your life. . . ANYONE. . . who you feel less than love for. . . you have misunderstood.
I guess my voice kind of changed in middle school. It was what it is now. I remember there was this boy who used to walk behind me and sing that song that goes, "Walk like a man, talk like a man" and I was devastated. So I learned that I can pick up my voice if I want to.