The thing is, emotion - if it's visibly felt by the writer - will go through all the processes it takes to publish a story and still hit the reader right in the gut. But you have to really mean it.
Afterward I told his widow, "Your husband is dead, but at least he died laughing. ' I think she took some comfort in that. It is the second-best way to die, Will Henry. " He did not say what the best way was.