In society, we have these unspoken rules of conduct, these 'shoulds. ' Even though we pride ourselves on being a democracy, there are all these ways we say you 'should' behave. But what if you're living your life by the 'shoulds' and you're not really living your life?
"Stop asking "What should I do now?" That question only brings up what others expect of you. Free people don't have shoulds. They have choices. "
We don't get our shoulds, we get our musts.