Susan Cheever (born July 31, 1943), an American author, is a prize-winning best-selling writer well known for her memoir, her writing about alcoholism, and her intimate understanding of American history.
Falling in love as we know it is an addictive experience.
There were a number of books about Bill Wilson, and by him, but a lot of the basic biographical tasks had not been done.
Dogs are great teachers. They are at home in the world. They live in the moment, and they force us to stay there with them. Dogs love us unconditionally, not for our bodies or bank accounts.
The birth of a child is in many ways the end of a marriage - marriage including a child has to be reinvented, and reinvented at a time when both husband and wife are under unprecedented stress and the wife is exhausted, physically drained, and emotionally in shock. A man's conflict between wanting his child to have a mother and wanting to have the mother to himself is potentially intolerable.
Guilt is petty; I am above guilt.
A wedding isn't for the bride and groom, it's for the family and friends. The B. and G. are just props, silly stick figures with no more significance than the pink and white candy figures on the top of the cake.
Womens currency is their looks. Like it or not, the most powerful woman is an 18-year-old woman.
There is no other closeness in human life like the closeness between a mother and her baby - chronologically, physically, and spiritually they are just a few heartbeats away from being the same person.
I believe that the memoir is the novel of the 21st century; it’s an amazing form that we haven’t even begun to tap…we’re just getting started figuring out what the rules are.
I don't really think of writing as a career. It's something that happened to me. By working harder than I knew it was possible to work, I have become passable at it.
If a woman is surrounded by lovers or if a woman has a lot of guys asking her out, that's considered wonderful. As a woman who's slept with a lot of men, I've always been complimented on my ability to attract men.
I think 12-step programs really work, rehab really works, certain types of therapies and talking to other addicts really work. There are a lot of things that work - that isn't the problem. The problem is getting the addicts to say they're addicts. The problem is admitting it.
The actual American childhood is less Norman Rockwell and Walt Disney than Nathaniel Hawthorne and Edgar Allan Poe.
There is no such thing as expecting too much.
You mustn’t be so open-minded that your brains fall out.
Death is terrifying because it is so ordinary. It happens all the time.
Whenever there was a crisis, I found a man to help me take the edge off the feelings of helplessness and pain.
A fierce literary woman with a penchant for married men, Margaret Fuller was ultimately torn between motherhood and her final career as a political reporter.
Writers often write their best when they are feeling their worst
When Tolstoy wrote that all happy families are alike, what he meant was that there are no happy families.