John de Ruiter (born November 11, 1959) is a Canadian nondualist author who conducts meetings and seminars on his own 'College of Integrated Philosophy' in Edmonton, Alberta and abroad.
As awareness recedes into the deep, as when it falls asleep, everything seemingly ends. All that it takes is a gentle touch to your body; meaning has moved and meaning is again aware, knowing, seeing, and if it is home, meeting and communing.
While sincerity is to carry the weight of knowledge in the self, it is also to be the lightness of being clean.
Relationship means you give all of your heart.
When you are in your heart, you love.
High level womanness occurs and is freed when the filters and the boundaries in your womanness are no longer of use to you. As a woman you then move as your own Being.
Your self doesn't represent the truth in you, your being does. Give your ease only to what you know represents the truth in you.
When you love what’s deeper, your response is direct. There won’t be a fear in dropping directly into the deeper.
What is deeper is warmer. When you’re looking for what is deeper, add warmth.
When you respond to your heart you are responding to love.
When you are known, what you are is activated.
As soon as there's pain, you know the gold is just beneath.
Truth is not a mystery - its greatest secrets are yours to know through simple honesty and surrender to what that honesty reveals.
Where there's self importance, there's only a very little bit of you and that little bit is distorted. It's in a holding pattern that is false to what it knows. That holding pattern forbids you, in that little bit of you, from being the rest of you.
When you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your self.
Love is not an experience. Love is what you are.
You are able to come from openness and softness in an instant.
Be warmed in your heart in the midst of your sexuality. Your response to your own sexuality is that you are warmly in it, not exploiting it, not moving away from it, that you are completely present in it, warmed.
Openness and softness of heart loves what it knows
When you really love, that makes you feel unsure in your self, even though it is love that reaches your heart.
When you lay down your life for what you are after you've died, you're clean.