John de Ruiter (born November 11, 1959) is a Canadian nondualist author who conducts meetings and seminars on his own 'College of Integrated Philosophy' in Edmonton, Alberta and abroad.
Relationship means you give all of your heart.
Live only for what you know in your heart is worth dying for.
For you to access your own innermost as awareness is for you to surrender form after form after form, enabling you as awareness to recede to what you first are, for you to be meaning.
In all of its vulnerability, profound sincerity does, in its relationship to knowledge, find its way.
When you are in your heart, you love.
What you are is the most subtle delicacy of being.
Love doesn't need to be answered, It just quietly and freely gives.
Relate to the little instead of relating to the big. The little is indomitable.
The let-go of the last little bit is the biggest because, in that, there is no return.
The formless cannot be based on the form. The form needs to be based on the formless.
When awareness believes what it knows is true, the truth of what awareness really is, moves. That movement is love.
If you move as a being in every experience of your self, your being replaces your self.
The heart that is at rest grows and develops from anything.
The more honest you are, the more quieted you are within.
The cure to your self is that you are not yours.
For you to be free of your thinking mind, that will cost you the way that you've put your self together. It will cost you your patterned self.
Be warmed in your heart in the midst of your sexuality. Your response to your own sexuality is that you are warmly in it, not exploiting it, not moving away from it, that you are completely present in it, warmed.
Truth is not a mystery - its greatest secrets are yours to know through simple honesty and surrender to what that honesty reveals.
When you move the deeper levels in you and the deeper levels in your body, you'll be relating to that mystery in her. You'll relate to it directly and you'll lay hold of it through the deeper levels in you and in your body.
This life is a stellar opportunity to realize what you are, to bring what you first are into manifestation.