It seems to me that true love is a discipline.
True love is an acceptance of someone else for who they are.
True love is measured by the thermometer of suffering.
True love is an act of total surrender.
True love, is the love that seduces and will never allow itself to be seduced.
True love is just like regular love, but with more truth.
The one measure of true love is: you can insult the other. --Slavoj Zizek
True love is not for the faint-hearted.
True love is willing to warn, reprove, confront or admonish when necessary.
At the end of true love is death, and only the love that ends in death is love.