If you thought when you got your job at 20 that it would never change you were misinformed. Retrain yourself to be curious.
The more you retrain yourself to choose happiness over fear, the more blissful you will be.
It's been a lifetime of trying to have less beef. Beef comes very naturally to me. I was born with my dukes up, but that's not always necessary anymore. I have to retrain myself.
Good leaders must know how to reward those who succeed and know when to retrain, move, or fire ineffective staff.