It's okay to be afraid. It's not okay to let the fear STOP you.
It is okay to fall, but not okay to stay on the ground.
I'm not okay, you're not okay, and that's okay.
It's okay for you to have relationships, but it's not okay to talk about them. It's not okay to be out or to be public about it. It's not okay to be photographed with your partner.
Everything really is going to be okay. (And if not okay, then at least comic. )