It is well known to all great men, that by conferring an obligation they do not always procure a friend, but are certain of creating many enemies.
Tis our fast intent To shake all cares and business from our age, Conferring them on younger strengths, while we Unburdened crawl toward death.
The high-minded man is fond of conferring benefits, but it shames him to receive them.
As to the kindness you mention, I wish I could have been of more service to you than I have been, but if I had, the only thanks that I should desire are that you would always be ready to serve any other person that may need your assistance, and so let good offices go around, for humankind are all of a family. As for my own part, when I am employed in serving others I do not look upon myself as conferring favors but paying debts.
To dispense with ceremony is the most delicate mode of conferring a compliment.