You must match your music to the kind of people God wants your church to reach. . . . The music you use 'positions' your church in your community. It defines who you are. . . . It will determine the kind of people you attract, the kind of people you keep, and the kind of people you lose.
Straight couples don't have to be monogamous to be married or married to be monogamous. Monogamy no more defines marriage than the presence of children does. Monogamy isn't compulsory and its absence doesn't invalidate a marriage.
I like to find characters. Here's the bottom line: I can't play someone if I can't figure out what he cares about. Everybody cares about something, even a rough character. It defines where we step in life. As soon as you find out what somebody cares about, then it all gets real.